I want to leave, but no where to go.

[Whatsthatspookynoise]

I've had enough of my partner. I can't take the way he treats me or talks to me anymore. I feel like there's nothing left of me. The problem is, he rents the house we live in and I pay all the other bills with my little amount of UC. I can't make him leave, for one he would refuse and two, the rent is a lot. Even Housing Benefit wouldn't cover it. I have a 10 year old and a 15 month old. If I didn't have them, I would walk out and sleep on a park bench.

I do have family, but all of their houses are already packed as it is. I don't know what to do. I don't have money for a deposit. I don't want my son to have to change schools as this would be the second time already. I feel so down. I don't want to be shouted at or made to feel pathetic anymore.

I'm sure someone will be along with better advice, but I just wanted to say I am so sorry.

Don't give up. Find a way to leave.

Your son changing schools is nothing in comparison to the damage staying in a household where his mum is being abused.

Are your family supportive people? Would they have your back in you leaving your abuser 100%? If so, I'd shift back with them for a bit. Cramped or not, I'd rather live on top of people who are nice than in the room next to a fucking asshole.

First things first, call up all the companies and cancel your payments. Tell them you are leaving and they will have to write to your ex for his payment details should he wish to stay with their company.

No need to tell him. Theyll soon let him know.

Speak to womens aid and citizens advice for further guidance.

You have already done two positive things OP.

You know you want to leave is one
You posted about it on here - two.

I can't help you either but there will be others who have been where you are now and can help constructively.

I wish you well x x