About 6 months ago I met up with local Mum through another parenting site ( we were both fairly new to the region). Both our dd's are 3, and we got on really well, and started meeting most weeks. Our dd's really hit it off and had fantastic fun together; I thought all was well. Anyway, a couple of months later she fell pregnant. She texted me a few times, and said that she was feeling too ill to meet up and couldn't really face it till she was geting better. I thought "fair enough I know what it's like" and thought she must feel pretty bad then. This was over 2 months ago and we haven't seen them since.
She has texted a few times since then saying she was feeling a bit better but not great, and that she was looking forward to meeting up again etc. The last time was a month ago and I've heard nonthing since despite sending a 'how are you?' email.
It seems we have been 'dumped' but I find it really odd. This woman was very warm towards us; buying little pressies when they went away, giving me photos of our dd's together etc.. I don't understand it. Apart from feeling a little miffed, what's really upsetting me is my dd. She never stops talking about friends dd, and asks me every single day 'when can we see them?'.
I feel really terrible for her, as after a recent uprooting from old baby friends, I don't want her to feel rejected in some way.
It's made me so sad for her.. Should I text her, or leave it be and see if she gets in touch?