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Getting over him being with someone new

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jade22097 · 16/08/2021 15:30

My ex left me for an 18 year old a few months ago. It’s not been that long but I know he’s still with her. I keep hoping he’ll tell me one day it’s over (I know that’s normal) but I just keep getting so obsessed over it. We had slept together after we broke up (I didn’t realise how “serious” he was about this girl) and I know it was wrong anyway but told him to tell her. He did but nothing changed. I really pity her but since I know she’s still seeing him after that I can’t help but feel so upset about it? I don’t want to feel upset about the fact that they’re not over yet because they might never be. I can’t see it working because of the age difference but at the same time he’s trying so hard to make it work, it’s hurting so much.

OP posts:
CrushedPistachios · 16/08/2021 15:34

How old are you and he?

jade22097 · 16/08/2021 15:35

I’m 23 & he’s 25. We have a 1 year old

OP posts:
WhatdoIsaytothem · 16/08/2021 21:26

I have the same situation. It hurts so much. But he has hurt me so much in choosing her. Told lies to cover his tracks. Cheated on us both.
I took a stand and stopped the relationship with me. She’s taken him back and they’re still together. It’s awful. But I’m not the one dating a liar now, she is x

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