My husband has had 2 affairs, that I know of. I forgave him the first one. I am his 4th wife and he cheated on all the others. He never left his marriage for another woman. All 3 wives left him. Now he has confessed that he is seeing someone else. I told him to leave and all he would say is 'it's not that easy'. He wouldn't explain why he cheated who she was or how long. He eventually told me she works in a pub where he was carrying out maintenance work. She left her husband, but not for him apparently. I packed most of his things and 2 days later he went for the weekend, with his bags and snook a dinner set, cutlery, pots and pans. He then came home on the Monday! We never spoke, he came in from work and went straight up to his bedroom. That lasted all week and the pattern was repeated the following weekend. I have asked him to leave and not flit between hers and my home. But he refuses, though last week he stayed with her on the Tuesday night. He has now received a solicitor letter, stating what I am entitled to. He does not want me to touch his pension, but the pension is worth more than the equity in the house. It is so cruel that he thinks he can come and go as he pleases. He has already said he is leaving me for her, so why doesn't he just go. Is there anyway I can force him out. We own the property jointly.