Hello, I have have no one else to talk to so I thought I would ask here.
I have been with my husband for 25 years and married for 10. We have always had a great relationship. 9 months ago I got us into a bit of financial trouble, not for the first time, and he said that was it we were over. A few weeks went by and I thought things were getting better. Then I overheard a conversation he had that suggested he was interested in a another woman. I confronted him about it and he said I misheard the full conversation. For weeks I was ill, and gathering proof that he was seeing someone and eventually he confessed to having an affair for the last 3 months. We argued a lot but we decided to stay together and try to put it all behind us. The trouble is I havent, I constantly think about what he has done and i am convinced he will do it again. Am I stupid in thinking things will get better, should I cut my losses and call it quits? I just don't know. Thank you for reading and any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks