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Child care arrangements -how on earth do people sort them ?

7 replies

peridito · 13/08/2021 09:25

I have a particular case in mind .

Amicable split with 6 year old child. Partner A works only at weekends ,B works Mon to Fri .
A has child Mon to Fri ,B has child every weekend .

B is self employed ,sometimes needs to work part weekend .Grandparents involved in some holiday and extra care at weekends .

Is this the norm ? If there is one ? How do people manage ?

Please don't rip my head off if I'm being incredibly naive here ,I realise how fortunate A and B are in being amicable ,both having incomes and there being 2 sets of grandparents .

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2reefsin30knots · 13/08/2021 09:34

People spend a lot of money!

Goodthings · 13/08/2021 09:36

It’s a nightmare. I had seven different childminders at one stage (two children in different schools with different times) and couldn’t find one person to cover it all.

Anoisagusaris · 13/08/2021 09:37

I don’t get what you are asking? Do you mean how do people who work full time and don’t have parents to help with childcare manage? Paid childcare of course.

peridito · 13/08/2021 09:48

Sorry Anonis ,for being vague .

I was looking for examples of how parents in this ( working only weekends + weekly working) sorted things .

My own thoughts are paying for childcare .

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MattyGroves · 13/08/2021 09:53

I don't think that's the norm.

There are a lot of different arrangements. Most of my friends both work either full time or 4 days a week with weekends off and pay for private nursery/wraparound care. Usually staggering hours so taking turns to do pick ups and drop offs. But most of my friends are office workers/WFH at the moment.

Blamelesscars · 13/08/2021 09:55

I’m not sure that’s a norm situation but I’d say pay for childcare or hope they have family who can look after the child on the weekends B had to work on weekends.

My old childminder often did Saturday or Sunday care and also overnights / early or lates for parents who did shift work but I don’t know any others that do!

Also depends what work b has to do? If it’s just paperwork then a 6 yr old can amuse themselves for a few hours

peridito · 13/08/2021 09:59

Thanks so much to those replying .It really helps .B's job is practical ,tools and workshop involved .

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