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[gingerface40]

So what do you think of this.......

Had a bit of a breakup (yes I am the one who had the one night stand and regretted it)

Ex got in touch, said he wanted to talk. Been broke up about a month.

So met up had a lovely night. Now I didn't sleep with him. This morning was fine, even put money in my bank as he wanted me to get a few things (I get discount) wanted to see me Saturday.

Text today to see if he could help me out (my mam is ill) said he would try but he's at work so fair enough, I managed something and told him.

Now this was at 3 I haven't heard from him at all, now I feel like I am at square one again and he knows I like him a lot!

I know this is a bit stalkery but he hasn't been online, so maybe I am overthinking.

Am I overthinking? He is a bit of a Jack the lad, but would have been nice to tell me he was out.

I have found since the breakup I have felt so much better now I feel back at bloody square one!

Nice answers please

Is the guy you spent the night with the guy you broke up with or someone different?

Assuming we’re talking about the same guy, then if you broke up, there was a reason for this. Do you want a relationship with a ‘Jack the lad’ type whose behaviour is leaving you back at square one and if so, why? Why are you pursuing this guy when being apart from him made you feel - in your own words - ‘so much better’?

No this is the ex so we broke up

I had a one nighter, I didn't enjoy it.

Now the ex got intouch when we are together It's fab.

I think I'm slightly heartbroken to be honest.

I’d leave it. He’s probably just busy? Are you properly back together? It’s not clear from your first post.

Not sure if OPs typing with a dialect but I dont understand what happened. Is anyone else lost?

@Sampafie

Not sure if OPs typing with a dialect but I dont understand what happened. Is anyone else lost?

Me 😂

Well not sure he said he wants to be back hahhaha!

It's probably me overthinking 😂

You feel better when you're not with him - I think that's all you need to know

You'll never find Mr Right while you're hanging on with Mr Wrong

In all my life I have never even been like this over a bloke!

I don't know what it is! Honestly

Is he just using you to get discounted stuff?

Hahaha nah I did offer. It's household stuff I think he's scared that it's not a bloke thing to buy it

Think I was overthinking. He's gave me some money for my Dr Martin's for my birthday today!

I am trying so hard not be be needy and text 🤣😂

How do you do it?