Ive been friends with a guy at uni for 3 years and during that time we’ve both been in other relationships. We’re living together next year and lived together in second year too. Since March things between us have been kind of weird and there’s been a lot of flirting but to be honest I didn’t think much would come of it. We’ve both been abroad all year so haven’t seen each other since last June.
We decided that we needed to talk in person so he came up to visit me. We chatted about stuff and he admitted that he liked me and wanted to see how things went. I told him I wanted to take things slow for the sake of everyone else in house and also just because moving from best friends to a relationship is quite a bit thing.
I do like him but when he visited I found that he took things a bit fast and kissed me straight away. I didn’t mind that but he then started to act very coupley straight away and being very touchy feely. He also said that we were going to share beds in our house all the time, which to me seems a bit intense when we aren’t even together.
Does anyone how any advice on what I should do in this situation? I do really like him but I don’t want to move fast, especially because we’re living together.