Potentially splitting with DH. DS is 10 months. It'll be amicable, he's not a bad person and he is a good father, it's just me who is wholly invisible.
DS is still breastfed. I go back to work PT next month, DH works full time.
I would never stand in the way of contact, as regularly as wanted, but until last month (and still when he's unwell or teething) DS co-slept and he is still breastfed. Would I be unreasonable to say no over night stays until DS is entirely weaned? He won't settle without me.