I’ve been with my partner for around 5 years. He’s been living at my flat while renovating another property in another city. It’s a small one bed without a garden next to a busy road and I’ve always known I don’t want to stay there and harboured dreams of us getting our own place. We discussed many possibilities - him selling his flat and combining deposits, then both of us renting a bigger place. For some reason six months I go I decided that now was the time for me to sell. Management company is a nightmare, there’s going to be big development across the road. But to be honest our plans were never fixed in stone. As move out date has got closer, it’s become apparent we don’t have a plan. Basically he wanted me to move in to his place halfway across the country and commute every other week for work. I realised that wouldn’t work. I’d be lonely and it would be stressful. Add to that problems he has with drinking and a porn addiction - problems I’d put at back of my head. Now need to move out of my flat. Pretty sure relationship is over. I’m terrified because I don’t know what comes next and I’m really, really kicking myself for letting go of my one bit of security. I love my own space and my own comforts. It was terrible idea and totally freaking out!!!!! Any advice? Thanks so much.