How did your marriage end.

[whatisforteamum]

I've been on here for yrs trying to work out what to do with my marriage.
Kids are adults now and despite some ok and tolerable bits we do have separate lives, rooms everything.
We been shoved in isolation for 10 days which obviously is difficult.
I've been told to shut up,eyerolls huffing and the last straw was when he said why do I have a photo of my late DF in the living room it is a 5x7.Tiny.df died 3 yrs ago and I have no grave or headstone to visit.
The lack of any hugs,touches or any concern for my well being long gone.
I could pack a case and walk off I'm so fed up.
How did your marriage end what was the final straw?

Sorry to hear that sunshineandflipflops.
When people treat me badly I try to workout if I caused it.
At the moment I have few reasons to be cheerful.My colleagues can be dismissive of me some are really lovely and kind though.
My dh is in a world of his own literally.
My ds is lovely very even tempered and kind.My dd can sometimes be like dh.
Maybe it was always this way and I just put up with it for every one else's sake.😪

@Sunshineandflipflops
Mine went older 😵‍💫, was a few years ago now, lots of water under the bridge since then…

@JustAnother0ldMan Surprising enough, the affair and subsequent relationship didn't last past a couple of years and he is now with someone a little older than us who he actually has things in common with I imagine.

Anyway, it's taken some time and work but we are very amicable now and my views on marriage have changed quite a lot. I'm just not sure whether we are supposed to be with one person for life when we all change and grow so much in that time. I'm not condoning affairs but just challenging the stigma of divorce I guess.