I need to get out but can’t!

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Hi sorry to write all my problems on here. I’ve been with my partner for 10years now and 4 kids together. I also have 3 previous. My partner has always been a bit of a loose canon and yells for no reason calls me horrible names. Which I could deal with (I know I shouldn’t). Now my kids all call me whore or slut etc. Tonight he’s blown his head we were bickering then he blew he’s slapped me and threatened me said we’re over but won’t leave. I have 7 kids here asleep so I can’t leave. He’s told me I can’t leave tomorrow and he’ll keep his kids. What do I do please help?

Call the police. He's broken the law and assaulted you. It's unfair to keep children living in this environment, you need support to get you and them safe.

Call the police. Now.

He’s told you that you can’t leave tomorrow-wtf? How is he planning to get you to stay?

Call the police.

Report to the police and contact Women’s Aid immediately for support. The council now will have more legal duties to provide safe accommodation for women and children who experience domestic abuse. Name calling, shouting and hitting are all forms of domestic abuse. You can contact your council’s homelessness team for information and help.

Ime you need the authorisaties on your side.. Police. Women's Aid.. Maybe even ss.
Ring the police now and have him removed.

Phone the police.

This is abuse. You need help

He’s already called the police told them I have a history of mental illness and that tonight I’m going crazy after 10 days isolation with the kids and him! The police spoke with me on the phone but couldn’t say much as I was scared just hoping they turn up so I can give them a look and they can help! I feel so guilty tho and love him why do I feel like this? Why can’t I hate him? My sis says that’s what abuse does to you but that scares me!

Can you phone the police and do the silent 'press 55' if you can't talk?

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He’s got the landline and I’m sat in the utility room I’ll try it now Thankyou I didn’t think of that I’m just so scared of how he’ll react

Are you on a mobile? Once connected, speak if you can, if you can't then do the 'press 55'. If he comes in, lie the phone flat so they can hear what he's saying but so it looks like you're not on your phone

Hey OP, I hope you were able to make that call & the police are with you or on their way. Make sure you tell them everything so he is removed. Thinking of you & hoping they get rid of him x

Thanks everyone they removed him as I was so distressed! He was released at 7am and came back here! I’ve had police on the phone to say they are concerned about me and have contact a mental health officer. He has managed to manipulate the situation and play the injured party! He’s very good at this and done this to all my friends the only person who believes me is my sister! He’s turning my kids against me as well x