I am a regular and this is the only place I can think of for advice. I have had a very difficult year with dh, one of the main issues being communication in the main him unable to share very little of his work life with me. It seems he wants to come home and shut off, I find this very difficult, sometimes he comes home and avoids all eye contact with me, and just uses the kids not to look me in the eye. I share my trivia of the day with him and all I get day after day is very general same comments ie busy day, lots done, I find this very hard work then to feel close to him and want to emotionally be close with him for the rest of the evening, It is as if he wants to shut me out. I have raised this with him several times but it always goes back to the same thing, I feel I know very little about the majority of his life and therefore find it hard to feel part of his life. I appreciate it may not sound like a major issue but Please can anyone offer any advice