Not sure if I’m reading into things here, I’m on high alert to red flags.
I’ve found that if I am busy or not initiating contact, I hear from my DP much more. Not sure if he can be called DP yet but we’ve been together exclusively for over a year. Anyway, we see each other regularly. But I’m between from the start it was me being far more chatty and in contact. I started to think oh well the relationship is good when together so I won’t push for more contact. It wasn’t a game. But I’ve now noticed that the less interactive I am on the phone or calls, the more he is.
Is this just normal psychology, ie I’ve given him chance to be in contact by taking the initiative instead of jumping in myself, or is it a red flag he’s only been more engaging since I’ve thrown the towel in so to speak about making sure I am in contact regularly?