Hi,
New to this thread. I had a baby with my ex and he left when my baby was 2 months old. Since then I've been a single mum. Now back at work full time. Life has changed so dramatically to what I thought it would be.
We are now CO parenting and it's working ok. Only thing is I've told him although I don't want to be with him, and same for him I still feel the emotional connection. It's hard to forget the memories we have had and the fact we share a a child together and since I briefly mentioned it for the first time the other day he's said he feels nothing. It's made me feel worthless and that us having a baby together meant nothing. It's much closure I needed but how can someone be that heartless?
I understand he is quite the narcissistic and maybe that's the problem that whenever I bring things up he diverts to how he felt and the struggles he felt... I can't relate because I've been left to be a single mum on my own but yet I'm so accommodating to him. Always keep him updated with photos etc when he doesn't see our DC at weekends.
Can someone help me? Is there something wrong with me and what I'm saying?
Thanks!