Making this thread to make myself feel better.. Wondering what is the worst way a partner/spouse has left a relationship with you? Or the worst thing you have found out since the relationship ended?
I will start..
I was with my ex for 20 years, we met at 20, And on his 40th Birthday he left me.
I found out that before he met me (So, about 22 years ago, when we were all 18) A woman started at his place of work, He liked her so asked her out, She turned him down, Then she left not long after for a better job. That was the extent of their time together. They did not keep in touch. Not long after he met me.
Anyway, After a 20 year long relationship which I thought was happy he announced he was leaving me to try to get with the love of his life. He went on to say he had never loved me, Never found me attractive, always thought of her when we were intimate etc, then promptly left me.
He tracked her down, Confessed his undying love for her, and, She turned him down again.
The reason I made this thread at all is because when I moved away after the split I took a suitcase with me, Which I thought was full of clothes, I recently found the case and it had his old playstation in there as well, I decided to put it on for a laugh and it loaded up a game he always used to play. He had named the male character (made up names) Nick Smith, the female character Julie Smith, So I guess he was playing at being married to her? and the Dog character had my name..