Maybe the wrong place and happy to be advised....but....I have been almost 5 years separated from my stbxh, we have sold the family house, done the hard stuff, have 50:50 with my son who is 10 and all is well.
I have met an amazing man who has let things progress in a way that my son has led it...my DS was the one who asked if my DP could be my bf etc... I am just anxious to hear from other people how this sort of amicable, easy, relationship has panned out for them...where are the bodies are buried? What are the Pitt falls I need to avoid and what do I need to watch out for? Not wanting to back-fill, previous relationship was very hard and I have had a new mortgage full of therapy to get me to this point....Will be interested to hear similar experiences ....thanks in advance xx