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Should I get him out of my head and who do I?

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Rainyydayy · 31/07/2021 18:47

Just out of a very toxic relationship.
I have met this man, he is 32 , I am 25.
He tells me he is interested in me.
We both have one child.
He seems like he’s looking for something serious as he also has been in a toxic relationship.
We have planned to meet in 10 days time.
He doesn’t seem to talk to me a lot through text.
When he does talk to me I feel he is not very interested.
When we see each other it’s completely different.
He could go days without talking to me and then when he does it’s like everything is fine.
Sometimes when he is talking to me he will say goodnight, other times he will just fall asleep and not respond the next day.
I can’t stop thinking about him.

OP posts:
EspressoDoubleShot · 31/07/2021 19:34

Stop trying to fix him or make him love you. If it feels like hard work walk away
I cannot see the appeal you’re doing a lot of emotional work for a disinterested man
why
Don’t invest anymore time or energy in this man

lazylump72 · 01/08/2021 12:07

The start of a relationship should be the very best times OP..for you both.The times when the phone never stops the texts flood in you are both so engaged and happy to want to get to know each other and cannot bear to be apart,making plans for dates and lots of fun and laughter...it shouldnt be this much hard work. If it is then its not for you.

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