New Possible relationship

[SalubriusSalamander]

So name changed because this is so new and I would be a bit embarrassed if anyone recognised me.
Met a lovely man, first person I've clicked with since being single. It's so delightful, I feel all butterfly-y and can't stop thinking about him.
But this is my first time dating since I had my daughter, so I'm interested in people's advice and timescales on how they proceeded.
Obviously really early days and in my head I feel like 6 months might be a reasonable timescale for when he can meet my daughter, and that would make sure I'm not just introducing random people to her, but small town being what it is, I imagine my ex might find out before that, should I tell him out of courtesy?
Anyway, I know I'm jumping ahead. I'm only 4 weeks in, but just thinking and daydreaming and interested in other people's experiences.

@SalubriusSalamander
I would not tell your ex it's really none of his business, it's your personal life and the only one he needs to know anything about is your dd. If he does find out and says anything respond by says I did not think I needed your permission to live my life how I want to. As long as your dd is cared for then the rest of your life is not his business anymore.

I'd wait 6 months minimum.

Depending on how well you get on with your ex, then yes I'd tell him out of courtesy before introducing a boyfriend to our child.

I would tell your ex out of courtesy if you have a decent relationship, but not yet. I'd wait until you've considered actually introducing your new partner to your daughter.

There's no rush. You'll know if/when the relationship is ready.

I wouldn’t do anything for the first 6 months to a year. It takes a long time to really get to know someone and for the ‘best behaviour mask’ to slip.

Personally I’d take it day by day and enjoy it for now. Not trying to put a downer on things but try not to get too emotionally involved too soon.