I'm divorcing my husband. I cannot be with him and be happy and this is down to his parenting and attitude of dss. I've done a lot of my grieving for this relationship whilst being in the relationship if that makes sense and have emotionally moved on.
I haven't been married that long and I'm pretty sure it will be amicable as it can be as neither of us have assets to fight about. We'll do it online. I'm not particularly worried as like I said neither of us have assets.
What I am worried about is rebuilding my life. In my head I've got my plan, and I'm pretty sure I'll be happy single but I feel really anxious about it. My dc are 15 and 14 and will be leaving home in the next couple of years. I don't want to be a worry to them and want to build a full happy life. I feel very up in the air about my future plans. Me and dh had plans to save up and buy a remote place in North Wales and live off the land. I don't know what I want out of my life anymore, I made my plans with dh and the things I wanted before dh don't fill me with joy anymore. I know it sounds so silly but I feel like my future is up in the air. I'm also worried as I'll be a single parent money wise again.. I can afford my house ect but I won't have a lot of spare money left over to do exciting things and socialising.
Sorry for the rambling. Basically can anyone sum it up how they've rebuilt their lives to be full of happiness without a husband and spare money.