Worried as we are both in late 20s had a baby together and the whole sexual chemistry has gone! We haven’t had sex in 9 months passion feels dead. We have been together 7 years and it has never been this bad. I feel like we are just living along side each other. Is there hope of sorting this out? We’ve been arguing lots recently too which doesn’t help and have just bought a house together. I’m really worrying this is just going to get worse and worse. I actually had a dream I cheated on him a few nights ago which is worrying. I know I wouldn’t cheat but it’s got to the point I’m thinking is this ever going to work… how can I put up with this for god knows how long. We spoke about it and then he ‘asked me’ tonight by saying ‘Cummon then’. There is no passion and I definitely won’t be sleeping with him to ‘cummon then’ I just don’t know what to do anymore!