Can’t get over him.

[Figandwalnuts]

We were only together for a few months, but knew each other longer. I know logically that it’s ridiculous to be hung up on someone I spent such a short period of my life with, but I really cannot stop it

I know it sounds cheesy, but I have truly never felt this way about anyone before - I have had past long term relationships, but nothing matched this.

The ending was shit and completely lacked closure. I’m sure there were things which I could have done differently too, but the bottom line is I am stuck in a horrible limbo, feeling unable to move on or let go because I haven’t felt this before ever for someone.

What do I do, how do I get over him?
Desperately need some advice please

Oh op, you sound so sad. Can you talk about what happened and why it ended?

Oh no 😞 is it definitely over??

Well, you do what the rest of us do, rely on wine and rubbish food. Cry a lot, get annoyed that you've done it for far too log. Then you put your big girl pants on. You'll be ok.
We've all survived. You will do too.

That's so sad. It really does feel awful, doesn't it?

As B1rdflyinghigh says above, "We've all survived. You will too".
It's just right now that is hard and you can't see a light at the end of a tunnel.

One day at a time, you'll get there.