I own a business and have known the guy that owns the business next door for 5 years. I've always thought he was quite attractive but there's never been anything flirty between us at all. I broke up with my 4 year ex in Oct, and have seen a bit of this other guy as both our businesses have suffered with the lockdowns so we've chatted a lot. Recently, I've picked up a vibe. He's made an effort to talk to me, and popped in for coffee quite a bit. I caught him looking at me yesterday when he was having a meeting at my place. I suddenly definitely really fancy him, out of nowhere! Feel it in my tummy.
Then today he popped in and DS was there. He offered to teach him how to make pizza in the kitchen and suggested today. He went off running errands then called at 4 and we went over. It didn't feel massively flirty there... though there was defo longer eye contact than I'd expect, and he asked what I was doing at the weekend... what do you think? Totally just friend vibes, or could it be something? I am totally out of practise at flirting, and he's my age but no kids, so I'd never want to make the first move... plus awkward if i had read it wrong as I see him fairly regularly! Though he has other restaurants so is often at others of his places, so I could avoid him probably - I'm not around for lots of the summer anyway. What do you think?