I'm in my mid-20s and have had 3 serious long term relationships. The first one cheated on me. Second was a classmate of mine who turned out to be a nut job who had folders saved of nudes of students who went to our Uni (apparently the boys had group chats where they would share nudes they received or found on the internet). Third was obsessed with porn. You know how throughout the day you'd pick up your phone and scroll through your messages or forums and whatnot? Well, every time I glanced over at his phone he was scrolling through nudes or porn on Reddit, even in public. He would also do this into the wee hours and then wake up grumpy because he hasn't had enough sleep.
All of these were regular men who I never thought would turn out like that.
Let's talk non-serious relationships. Friends. I have friends from Uni, volunteering and my internship. Over half of them have jokingly (not sure what the joke is) asked for nudes. They ask them from everyone. It's like some sick Pokémon card collecting game. Dating apps. I met 2 guys on there. Both went straight to anal like it's expected and one spat in my face and was puzzled I didn't like it. Again, nice regular people who don't give out red flags while we were talking.
What's wrong with everyone? Is it me having expectations that are way too high? I feel like if this is how it is I'm just going to end up all alone. 