So I’ve (F24) just started dating a guy (M44). We’ve been seeing each other for about 3 months and everything has been great, he’s really lovely and thoughtful.
This is my first relationship though so I’m not sure what’s considered normal and what isn’t. My issue is that he’s mentioned his ex (a woman he was seeing for around 6 months before he met me) a few times now. He’s told me maybe 6 or 7 different stories about her (some he’s told me multiple times). They were all relevant to the conversations we were having at the time but I still feel like it’s a little bit insensitive. One of them being that she liked to have sex in the middle of the night so he had to take viagra for her and another being that she liked men with long beards so he grew it out for her.
I personally haven’t brought up guys that I was casually seeing before him because I just don’t think it would be of any interest to him and also just taking his feelings into consideration as well.
I am super insecure so I understand that it could just be me being silly and making something out of nothing.