I’ve been seeing a new man for a few weeks. It’s going well, he appears to be a lovely person, mature, respectful, intelligent and kind. We’ve not slept together yet, just lots of kissing and touching. Last week after dinner out we got home and things progressed and we ended up in bed. And he didn’t get hard. I gave him a blow job which he appeared to enjoy but still no erection so I had to give up. He gave me an orgasm through oral. He didn’t say anything about his lack of hardness and I didn’t ask, thinking maybe nerves? However, I had noticed during previous kissing sessions the absence of an erection so it may not be a one off. He’s early forties. I’ve never experienced this before, even as a one off. How common is ED at his age? Will it always be like this or maybe just because it’s a new relationship? I don’t mind if it happens sometimes but I would like proper sex. Does anyone have experience of erectile dysfunction and can offer advice? Should I give it another chance or walk away?