Would you rather......

[Maydaybankholiday]

Be in a relationship where the conversation was amazing, flowing, jokes together, constang laughter and the sex was nice at best but fine/good.
Or...
A relationship where the sexual chemistry was electric, amazing, out of this world, but the conversation was good, nice enough??
Just wondering !! You can't have both in the game

Option A. You could work on the sex, but if you don’t click in other ways it will burn out

The first option as I would love an emotional connection. I've had amazing sexual chemistry but sadly that's all it was.

A as well here. I have found even amazing sex doesn’t last beyond year 4. It all becomes samey

Why do you ask, OP? Are you facing a choice between two partners?

Option A.
Very rare to find someone with thise qualities and good sex.

Sexual chemistry is one thing but if you dont really connect on other levels, its summer fling material, not relationship material.

Definitely the first option. I think that type of connection can help make the sex better. But you can have the greatest sexual chemistry and not connect on an emotional level, which in turn will result in boredom and less of connection.

@newdaynew

Why do you ask, OP? Are you facing a choice between two partners?

Haha I wish. No just curious, seeing the option B just now but for all I'm looking for at the moment it's working for me.

A.

I've experienced both and would always go for A. There's something nice about B - the guy I'm thinking of, well just being in the same room as him would turn me to jelly! But A was the one I wanted to spend time with doing things other than sex.

B would be a nice interlude though!

"A relationship where the conversation was amazing, flowing, jokes together, constang laughter and the sex was nice at best but fine/good."

I reckon the sex would be easier to improve, with time, than how well you communicate or how easy (or not) the company is.

For a relationship, a), for a fling b).

I'm definitely looking for B

A) for a serious relationship, B) for fun.

Probably A if I had to choose, but luckily I have both

Now if it were a choice between amazing sex and someone who would actually shut a cupboard after he’d used it and put his rubbish in the bin I might have a dilemma!!

@Mardycustard123

I'm definitely looking for B

Same 😂

A

A

I would go for option A, I think that's more important in the long term. But I also think being sexually compatible is important too. Personally, most of my relationships in the past have been lacking in some part, whether the sexual attraction hasn't been there for me but we got on, or where the sex is good but they didn't mentally stimulate me. The relationship I have now with my husband fulfills me in all areas and I am really content.

A. I've had B and the novelty quickly wears off

Neither I'd find someone else all together

The second. It’s easy to find someone else to do the first bit!

A, all day long.

B, definitely. Sex is really important to me in a relationship.

In the past I would have said B but thinking about current life with small children and limited opportunity for sex I’d go for A.

Option A. I think with a great emotional connection great sex is something you could work towards. Without much in common i think even the strongest sexual chemistry would peter out.

I know just how lucky I am to have both with dp Although a pp said the great sex doesn't last after year 4 and we're on year 3.5 so we'll see...

I married A. 15 years later I'm still glad.