Hi ladies - I'm in a bit of a pickle and wondering if anyone else has experienced this - falling out of love with DH? Our relationship has felt quite strained for a long time. I won't bore you with the details but he's had some really narcissistic traits and tendencies over the years which has chipped away at me over the years. But after having our son who is now 3yo something in me changed, I somehow felt stronger, my son comes first and DH opinions and demands just mattered less and less and I came to see it for what it was. It was emotionally abusive and narcissistic. Lockdown didn't help the matter either because his incessant complaining and negativity considering circumstances just pushed me further away. I still have a very demanding job, my own mental health and a toddler to see to and uphold, there is no time for me to mope around about petty things, and I also don't want to. I expected him to hold his own too, like a grown up. I don't feel he did. He tried to make his negative feelings my responsibility and I just pushed back. I'm not responsible for making him feel worthy of something, I'm also not the person I was 10 years ago who would believe that I am responsible for his happiness. Anyway, I feel like I have outgrown him, but I don't know how to tell him. I feel like I've grieved the relationship already, I'm not even mad at him or angry with life or anything. I just feel like we've outgrown each other. I think he feels this from me because he has been very loving and I can see he wants the affection etc, I don't think I feel the same. If anyone has been through this sort of thing? Is a bit like the 7year itch? Is it temporary?