So we have a calender clash. We arranged to go away camping with friends at the weekend and his dd( including his ex and her dp and kids who we get on ok with.)
However, my sister is coming down same time..havnt seen her for over a year and 2 nephews.
Obviously i want to see my sis. Dp is torn as some of his best mates are at camping trip whereas he likes my sis and nephews but not close.
I am torn as I want him to see my sis but also his friends. I think the plan is for him to do half and half. Im just a bit gutted that he's not so keen to see my nephews as friends. I know im being unreadonable. ( they are young kids and therefore hard work!).
Bit of a drip feed...one of the old friends was a bit of an arse to me a while back and for that reason i think he should prioritise my family. He was annoyed with arse friend but there are other good friends from his past who hed love to see.