I don't even know where to begin here but I need opinions I have been with my man for almost 8 years we where as happy as can be and I am having our second baby soon we have always spoken about how we both hate people that cheat/stray from a relationship and I honestly thought he would never dream of doing anything like that till yesterday when I went to use his phone to search something quickly and it was sitting on a free hook up site that you need an account to get into! I was so angry and hurt but once I calmed down a bit I asked how long he was on it for (didn't know about the make account part at this time) thinking he was going to say only half an hour but turns out he had the account and was on it for a week but swears he did message anyone only looking at dirty photos an bios which still cut me to my core I asked why did he do it he said he didn't know and that all the SINGLE guys at his work where on it hooking up and sending pictures! I told him to leave and he did he wants to try fix things but I am BIG on trust and o don't think I could ever just let this go but until yesterday he was the man of my dreams and I am lost without him
Please please help what would you do?