Why does he get to be nasty

[skinnycat89]

So I did a post about my ex leaving and me being heartbroken and crying etc well I have stoppped crying and was getting over it but when we speak he starts being nasty and he's cut my internet off even tho he said he would pay for it now me and the kids are left with no tv or broadband as from tomorrow ... he's just going about his life happy as Larry living with his mum getting everything handed on a sliver tray and there me hurting and wondering what I ever did wrong to him I no am not perfect but I tried my best to make sure he was dam happy but he always brings up I spent his money on crap like getting my nails done when he would bloody tell me to go get them done .... bloody fed up upset and it's to bloody hot

Have you put your child maintenance claim in yet?

Have you looked into all single parent benefits - citizens advice are good for that.

You're going to have to get everything set up yourself.

get your own internet provider
change the locks
dont 'speak' if he's being nasty

take some control back from him. do you have an income separately?

Yeah all my money sorted by he told me he would carry on paying the tv/broadband so I didn't bother changing anything then today he says it getting cut of tomorrow ... and is saying only text him about his daughter just Hurts as he was the one who cheated and was calling me horrible names and it's like I can't say anything to him .. x

Set up your own broadband account tomorrow
You are well rid of him
Make sure he supports your youngest child financially.
What have you told your children about him?

Do you think you need to be checked for sexually transmitted infections? Given that he was cheating?

Yeah am making sure he does right by her as he didn't bother his arse when he lived here and I no I it will be his mum who does everything for her ... I just told my older two if wasn't working out as they are bit older to understand .. my youngest just says her daddy horrible to my mum coz I did cry in front of her I didn't want to but couldn't stop it xx