I am early 30s and seeing someone I met at work a few years ago .( I no longer work at the same place ).Recently I did some work at his work place and we started meeting up for coffees , this went to drinks and now we text and meet regularly . I’ve started to lean on him a bit and he has been supportive .He has always liked me and would like a relationship with me . I was not single previously . He’s a nice guy and he treats me well. My feelings for him have surprised me . Thing is … he is mid 40s and has two kids . I told him I want a child at some point and he said he would like that with me although I highly doubt that he would have wanted that given he already has two .
Am I naive to go for this ? I’ve had horrible horrible dating experiences/ relationships and on one hand I can’t face the dating pool and also I may never meet someone who treats me well . But , I could find a man with no kids and nearer my own age .
Any advice on this ?? Or experiences. Thanks :)