So I was worh someone for 10 years, we have 3 children together, we spilt up around 3 months ago and now he's with someone else, he comes to my house to see the kids and still treating it like he still lives here, falling asleep in my bed, just sat watching films with he kids on my bed, the relationship wasn't good towards the end and we both needed to change but didnt. Sometimes he's asking me why I couldn't just change when I had the chance, then he will say its to late im sorry,
Hes told me I still mean alot to him, he cares about me alot I'm his family, and he didn't want to break the family up but it was getting to much which I understand, but every few weeks where going through the same 'talk about us'
We do argue when he's here sometimes and he says stuff like this is why I don't wanna be with you & Sunday he told me whats the point him coming back when it's just arguing.
My head is so confused because I don't no what he is trying to do, like I have no hope he will come back and make it work I've already tried that approach and he will ignore it or say he asked us to change and I didn't blah, I just don't no what to do anymore!