After not seeing my cousins after 22 years (my parents and their parents fell out), I got in touch with them in the hope that they might want to meet. They responded positively and a date was suggested. When we were closer to the date, one of my cousins had to drop out but the other cousin was still up for it. I booked a restaurant, gave directions and we swapped phone numbers. The night before she cancelled due to an upset stomach. I sent a message suggesting we reschedule for another day. The cousin who couldn't make it responded with the dates she couldn't do so I said let's make it the end of September. The one who had an upset stomach hasn't responded since the message saying she wasn't coming. I was just wondering if I should send another message yet asking if they were still up for it. It's been 4 days since I've heard from them. I think I'm finding it hard because they've been so positive and up for it and then suddenly there's silence. Just need some advice before I make a mistake and come across as a pain to them.