Hi so I’ve been seeing a guy for 6 months, everything seemed to be going great, he told me he loved me recently. And I feel the same way.
So my friend invited me for some drinks on Friday night, I went along and it turned out her boyfriend and his friend was there. I’ve met this friend before and I know he was interested in me previously but nothing happened between us. I stayed for drinks and we were all sat around talking and having some food. No flirting or anything happened.
I saw my boyfriend the next day told him about it and he said I shouldn’t of stayed because this guy was interested in me before. I feel like he should trust me enough to be around men without losing my mind. He said, he had plenty of opportunities to be around women that fancy him, he said he has urges sometimes to talk to other women or to sleep with but he doesn’t. He gets feelings like that but out of respect for me he doesn’t do it.
Am I being crazy or is that ridiculous? We should be in the honeymoon phase right now, everything seemed to be going so good and he’s just thrown that in my face and I just feel so meh. I left his house quickly after that and we haven’t spoken since Saturday.