Hey, I’m just really looking for some support. My husband left me. We met at school age 15, first everything’s. He is 31 now. We married 3 years ago and lived together after marriage. I found out a few months ago that he had undisclosed debt. We agreed to refinance this. I found out he had been messaging another women. Swore blind it wasn’t romantic but I don’t believe him, I’m sure this is why he says he has no feelings for me. He wanted space, I gave him that. After a week of not speaking to me, despite once texting me saying he loved me and telling my sister he couldn’t see life without me, he has now said he lost sexual feelings for me and there is nothing that can change his feelings. He said you don’t sleep with your best friend. He said he has been thinking about this for a while and has tried to be attracted to me. I’m gutted, I’m lost. I’m not naive to think the marriage was perfect, there were faults. He has said he will pay me the money back. I know I have to move on, but right now I’m so lost and grieving the life I thought we would have.we were going to have a baby. He doesn’t even want to be friends, he says he does, but he isn’t bothered, he’s living his best life. New clothes, talking about getting a flat, I’m not expecting him to text Me like before but I did also think he would be kind. I know - not my finest hour but I suggested getting a drink as friends, he said no and then said maybe someday we can grab coffee. It’s so sad to see someone who I thought was my future cut me off in this way.