Ways in which domestic abuse continues after you've left your abuser ex.. Particularly through child contact.

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Ex has refused to change contact on mother's day, my birthday and my mums passing anniversary. He now expects me to make DD available on her birthday when it's not his contact day. He's also pursuing that the court reveal where we live as we relocated after fleeing domestic abuse..
Just can't take any more. When does it stop.
Please share your experiences too.

Messing around with maintenance, refusing holidays, it’s relentless

I worry about parental alienation in the future. I'm DDs resident parent.. She has minimal supervised contact with him at the moment but inevitably it will most probably progress to unsupervised at some point. I worry that his hatred of me is so strong that he will brainwash her and she will want to live with him one day.