I have an exclusive fwb thing, I’ve known him for 5 years and we’ve had an on and off arrangement for around the last 3 years. It stops when either of us start dating someone else, I have had one relationship of around a year, and he has had a couple of short-term relationships.
I had one time when I was starting to have stronger feelings for him, I spoke to him about it at the time and he said that wasn’t what he wanted. We took a little time apart and then things started up again this time around March this year. I’ve come to terms with it not being more than what it is and have distanced myself from those feelings.
The last few times I’ve seen him I feel like something has changed. We were watching a film sitting on his couch the other day and he was holding me and stroking my hair. We would normally just sit next to each other. Later on we started kissing a bit and he stopped and spent some time looking into my eyes.
I don’t know if I should talk to him again about what’s going on, or if I’m just reading too much into it. I’m completely fine with the type of relationship we have at the moment. I like spending time with him and we do things like go out to the cinema, for meals, day trips together, it’s not just sex.