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How to tell ur husband that he is terrible in bed?

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changesoul · 07/07/2021 17:45

My husband is terrible in bed how do I deal with that ? He does not even know how to kiss properly. It's been like this since we got marriage it was arrange marriage so we never dated before marriage. When we got marriage after 2-3 years I did try to tell him couple of times but he told me we should not talk about sex & he just exit which is not normal according to me.

He is good man with good heart. He cares for me a lot. He is controlling but that is tolerable I think.

My mom says he earns good, he does takecare of me, no physical abuse, we go on trips, have house , why i don't want to stay but I just don't feel right.

Mom says so u have to let it go but I m finding it v hard specially when all you got is ur husband in different country.

I know he loves me and he will Take care of me all his life .. he does not have any affairs, no drinking problem or anything and he is well cultured. He is mammy’s boi he does take care of his parents .

Then why I m not happy I feel sometimes there is something wrong with me dunno What u guys think ?

what should I do ? Is being bad in sex good reason for divorce or shall I be okey.

We don't have kids yet don't know really what to do if anyone can shade some light. I'm making mistake thinking of leaving him? Or I should not consider this as huge thing and just not think about it ?

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VettiyaIruken · 07/07/2021 17:46

Your post this morning has replies on it
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/4290397-how-to-tell-your-husband-that-he-is-terrible-in-bed

changesoul · 07/07/2021 17:47

[quote VettiyaIruken]Your post this morning has replies on it
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/4290397-how-to-tell-your-husband-that-he-is-terrible-in-bed[/quote]
Yes by mistake I have post this I was just trying to copy past pls ignore it does not even allow me to delete it

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66babe · 07/07/2021 17:50

This is not copied and pasted
It's worded differently, did you want more opinions ?

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