Head spinning!
Last night me and DP (don’t live together) were chatting on phone. He works weekends and was very tired. Had a nice chat then I brought up plans to see each other next. Wed already said Friday a few days ago and so I have no idea why I mentioned it. He then said he was happy to come to me instead but he would have to be back by Saturday to feed the cat. I said well we may as well stick with the original plan of me going to him and staying the weekend. He said yes he was just offering so I didn’t have to drive. I reacted badly and said why would you just want one night with me etc, to which he said sorry he was just tired and making a suggestion. We said goodbye and things were ok.
I didn’t sleep much but this morning he text me saying he was sorry he was so tired and of course he wants to spend time with me and misses me. He wished me a good day.
I feel like it’s me that should be apologising not him?! And I’ve since replied saying thanks for nice message and I feel the same about him
Do I send a follow up saying I’m sorry too for being over the top and dramatic? Or just leave it? I’m almost embarrassed to mention it as I feel so silly in retrospect but at the time I genuinely felt like he just wasn’t bothered about spending more than one night together. Part of me feels I should address the fact I was a bit of a twat but his message seemed clear he was sorry and that’s that? He also never messages in the morning so he was obviously thinking about it. I don’t want to open it up again. Maybe I should learn from this in private and not be a dick again? It just feels insincere as I do sense I was in the wrong.
I know this sounds like I’m 12. I’m actually over 30. Would you leave it?