Is he trying to get a reaction, or just moved on!

[Candee2021]

Hi everyone and thank you for reading.

So me and my ex broke up 2 months ago. In the midst of the break up, horrible words were exchanged om his end. He thought I cheated on him( which I didnt). One month ago, he send me an awful message about " thanking me from the bottom of his heart for being a piece of sh** , liar and a cheater" because he met the woman of his dreams, his queen, his everything"

Well fast forward, we finally talk, he lets me know how hurt and upset he was over our break up and that he loves me...😏...

My thoughts are wondering why you kept speaking to this dickhead and why you seem happy and smug he said he still loves you when he's a cringe level wanker and with someone else...

He is a total prick and you are well rid. Block him.

then proceeds to message me photos of her and him, naked as well as clothed photos.

You didn't block a man who sent you naked images of him and his new girlfriend? What a fucking betrayal of her to send them to you and to be honest how batshit of you to keep talking to him after this!

Have you been in predominantly toxic relationships? Because to most people him doing that would have been a WTF he's an arsehole / nutter / misogynist resulting in a block. But you kept talking and then were smug someone so disgusting said he still loved you? Bleurgh.

What is there to think about? He verbally abuses you, then he's all nicey nicey again and declare's love to you, then he's plastering pictures of him and fancy new woman on social media, and then, and then....

There's too much drama and that is never sign of a healthy person. People like this are narcissistic and immature.

Have no further contact with him and block him from everything.

then proceeds to message me photos of her and him, naked as well as clothed photos.

This is a crime. You need to report him to the police. She needs to know he has done this.

He may have done this to you?

Tbh he doesn't seem quite well. Sending you naked pictures of him and another woman? Anyway he sounds like a total bellend, leave him to it.

He's literally committed a crime. How disgusting to not block him for this even if you didn't want to let the woman in question know.

@Sssloou

then proceeds to message me photos of her and him, naked as well as clothed photos.

This is a crime. You need to report him to the police. She needs to know he has done this.

He may have done this to you?

This was my immediate thought - report him

He doesn’t love you obviously. He doesn’t even like you, you dont send pictures of yourself and another woman naked to someone you love.
Aside from that I feel so sorry for this woman, how disgusting. Imagine how you would feel if someone did this to you, or your DD.
You asked for our thoughts. My thoughts are he’s sick, he’s broken the law and you should contact the police and show them what he’s sent. Why are your friends encouraging you to give this fucker a moments headspace, it’s beyond me . Report him, block him, move on and be glad he’s out of your life .

Agree with other posters- why are you still entertaining contact with this horrible man?!

Find a way to tell the new gf what he’s done and block him forever!

He sounds like a complete slimeball? Bin him.

Left out a few things. I did block him...the only way he was able to reach out to me was by calling me on his work number. And it was because I told the gf( who deserved to know) what he did. I AM don't with him. HE was trying to resch out to ME. And I am not happy that someone tells me they love me but shows ( obviously) that he doesn't just by his actions alone. He apologized which o deserved...after we talked his work number is also on my blocked list. I shouldn't have asked a question. And the gf is still his gf. She treated me as if I were the enemy, which I expected but she deserved to know and if she wants to file charges ...she can do it. There was clearly more to the situation, I just cut the post so it wasn't entirely too long to read.

Well he's a right piece of shit isn't he

Yes he is