Slept with my ex fwb

[Jumpinginwithbothfeet]

I haven't spoken to my ex fwb for 2 months. It ended because I got feelings and he didn't and he was actually quite mean to me about it all. Anyway out of the blue he messaged me on social media as I had blocked him otherwise, and I stupidly ended up going round and sleeping with him. I know he used me and I let it happen I thought I would be ok but its dredged up all the old feelings and now I feel rubbish again. Hes like an addiction I just can't say no to. Why can't he just leave me be? I know he is on fab swingers so its not like he can't get ot from somewhere else.

Please see it as a mistake you won't be repeating. Perhaps stay off SM. And please be kind to yourself.

Block him so he can't get in touch with you?

He didn’t do it because he wants you, please don’t mistake it for wanting you even though he can get it elsewhere, he just wanted to prove to himself he could have you again if he tried. Harsh but true. So don’t read into it

You want what you can't have

I'm sorry you feel rubbish again, he sounds like a prick. Don't beat yourself up, everyone makes mistakes, do somethong nice for yourself this evening and take care of yourself