I was able to break up with partner a week ago and asked him to move out. After years of lack of effort, job aspirations, negative behaviour and foul attitude towards me. I have that feeling he doesn't take me seriously. I made it very clear i dont want to be with him. We have 2 children together so he has to see them. But he still calls whenever he's in the mood then is horrible because I 'ignore' him. He constantly texts me with kisses, still calls me pet names. Asks for hugs, wants to plan days together 'what do you want to do later or on days off'. On days I work late he moans that he's the babysitter. I also split because I felt smothered by him and I still do! He may have a new job pending and plans to win me back in a few weeks with a fancy date or gift. How the hell do I get my point across even though I have made it clear? It's hard because we have children together I can't go no contact for sake of them. I've rejected all advances put he still persists, I feel like we haven't broke up at all!