I really need advice now please!!

[Jozzy7]

So me and my partner was watching something last night about killers and i said couples make each other go crazy and start killing each other i dont understand why and we started talking anyway i said to him you wouldn't kill me and he said i would.. I said what if I ever cheaten on you you would kill me and he said yes I really would id kill you i and I would kill him id go to the police and tell them what I did not letting you live your happy life living with what you had done and if I cant have you no one can and I said you actually would he said yeah i really would and I made him swear on our son if i ever cheated he would and he said i swear on our son if you ever cheated i would be going down for murder fuck that moving on to get hurt again maya swell kill you then get sent down because no way if get with anyone else and me cheated on again I don't know what to think obvs I wouldn't cheat but what do you all think? Please let me know

He was not joking, he was warning you.

He has stated plainly that he thinks it would be his right to kill you if you did something to make him very angry.

There really is no way to unhear that. His threat is real. Believe it.

I doubt that this is the first time he has said something which has left you a bit

I doubt that your relationship so far has always been 'easy' (unless you do/ give him exactly what he wants.

What else has he done/said which made you question what he'd be capable of ?

Wtf! U actually let him swear on your child!! I would go fucking nuts just for him saying that... Missing the point right enough... He soundsa right prince charming tho

I mean - it may well be the ludicrous hyperbole of a grossly inadequate fuckwit who wouldn't last five minutes in a scrap, but you'd know that better than I. I'd leave him either way so I guess it amounts to the same thing.

He threatened to take my son 2 months ago so I had to have him back so I could get my son in the flat and it hasn't its been so hard...

You are in very real danger, call Women’s Aid immediately, even if you have to go take your baby out in the pram to make a call without him overhearing.

What can we do to help you, OP?

@Haffiana

What can we do to help you, OP?

I just dont know what to do he also said he meant it today and was serious

Call the police then. Have him removed.

Please contact the police. Women's aid. Ami in Boots.

You say you stayed a couple of months ago to get back in the flat because he threatened to take your son away...
You're back in the flat now, get him out of it. In the safest way though op. Please be careful

You must be petrified. I'm so sorry. Very worried for you

Poor you

My awful ex was involved in some very dodgy groups (v bad ones)
I asked him once had he killed someone and he smiled and said he wasn't sure

He went on to try to kill me

Run a mile when you get a flag as big as this

Walk into any reputable pharmacy and say " may I talk to Ani please "
Make sure you have the baby with you and any money you have access to
Get away from this psycho asap

You seriously need to get away from this man.

Your poor baby needs you to be strong and put him first.

Get the hell out! One of my earliest memories is my dad telling us that if my mum left him he’d pour petrol through the letterbox and burn us whilst we slept. He told us this fairly regularly as children and terrified the life out of us. Get your son away from him! These kind of men don’t change and he will never put your son first.

Sounds more like pathetic bravado than the ramblings of a psychopath. I'd be off for that reason, not because I was concerned the idiot was going to murder me in my sleep.