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He is cynical and disrespectful

14 replies

Zig27 · 13/06/2021 21:48

My friend and I started getting my close emotionally but he cut contact in January. I have noticed that he has been on to our community Facebook page this weekend and written big paragraphs on a thread insulting people who don't have the same political opinion as him and talking down to them. He did tell me a while back he got into arguments with people on Prime Minister Boris Johnson's page. It's nice to know he has time to reply to random strangers but no time to reply my message in January.

I know he will resurface soon after his course ends In July as he thinks we can pick up from where we left off. I honestly don't want to date a cynical and disrespectful man who doesn't respect other including me. What do I say when he does make contact? Thanks.

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Unanananana · 13/06/2021 21:52

'Fuck off'

lobsterkiller · 13/06/2021 22:09

Same, why would you even need to say anything. Ignore, you last heard from him in January. It is now mid-June. You are worth more than this.

Opentooffers · 13/06/2021 23:07

Just block him, no contact necessarySmile

Umberellatheweatha · 13/06/2021 23:13

Block him. On everything.

seensome · 13/06/2021 23:14

Ignore him, if your not worth his time to talk to now why should you be available when he decides to get in contact again.
He's not that interested don't make excuses that he can't be a friend during a his course, or is distance causing him an inconvenience because he can't shag you?

Nonmaquillee · 13/06/2021 23:16

Say nothing
You owe him nothing
In fact, block him

Honeyroar · 13/06/2021 23:17

Treat his (eventual) reply with the respect it deserves - none! Do exactly the same to him as he’s doing to you - don’t bother replying!

HollowTalk · 13/06/2021 23:17

Don't be daft, why would you ever speak to him again?

TacCat49 · 14/06/2021 01:41

Who. Are. You.

Moooning · 14/06/2021 01:58

Unananana or whatever hit the nail on the head. Why do care about what a fascist knob thinks of you? Jog on mate

Aquamarine1029 · 14/06/2021 02:01

What do I say when he does make contact?

Why would you bother to wait for contact from him? Makes no sense whatsoever. Block him now and this isn't an issue.

SarahBellam · 14/06/2021 04:55

I’d block. You don’t owe him anything.

BuddleiaBlooming · 14/06/2021 06:33

Just ignore it surely. If he hasn't replied to you since January, you don't owe him anything!

Zig27 · 14/06/2021 16:58

Thank you all for your sensible advice. I must be assertive and confident in myself to only connect with those who are respectful and not contact when it suits them. He is arrogant and I don’t even want someone like that even as a friend.

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