Woke up feeling really low this morning, My ex hasn't asked how our child is except for 1 time and it's been about 2 weeks since we broke up, he's happily going off doing his own thing etc and then i have his mother calling me a bad mother because I called her out on smacking DC bum (DC told me) then it was followed by 'believe what you want' several times and she basically thinks it's ok that her son (DC father) has abandoned our child multiple times in the past since he's been born. Yet DC is apparently her favourite grandchild 
It's like talking to children trying to have a conversation with either of them and I can honestly say the apple didn't fall far from the tree it was just very well hidden in terms of exs mother. How am I supposed to co parent with a man who doesn't appear to give a shit about his own child? I'm thinking of mediation but truthfully I haven't got a clue where to start, and as for his mother she can fuck off, she's raised an incompetent man who chooses weed and alcohol over his child and she thinks it's ok for him to emotional abuse me and abandon his child.