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Babycam spy

36 replies

PurpleRainStorm1987 · 10/06/2021 21:33

My husband used the babycam (video type) to spy on me getting dried and dressed in our bedroom after my shower. He doesnt know i had noticed the camera had turned from facing the baby cot to facing the bathroom door ready for me emerging.
Would u say this is ok? Am i being too sensitive?
P.S im 5 weeks post c section so i dont think im very conscious of my body at the moment. Sex is defo not on the cards though he tries it on regularly (very handsy without checking its ok)

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PacifyLulu · 12/06/2021 12:25

Women’s Aid will you to afford to leave. You and your children deserve so Much better than living with this. Its illegal and more importantly it’s not right OP.

youvegottenminuteslynn · 12/06/2021 16:01

I know this is hard to accept but he is a sex offender.

What he is doing is illegal.

Your children are therefore living in the same home as a sex offender while learning that this incredibly unhealthy dynamic is what a relationship is supposed to look like. The longer you stay with this man, the more likely they are to replicate this dynamic in their own relationships. Which I'm sure would break your heart?

So you must leave, for them if not for you.

Women's aid will help you, I don't think you realise how clear a case of sexual offending this is especially as it's happened repeatedly. They will help you, you can't go on living with him.

JamieFrasersAuntie · 12/06/2021 23:29

I think the things you know about will be the tip of the iceberg.

Cherrysoup · 12/06/2021 23:40

I’m pretty sure this is illegal. Please contact the police for advice.

EarthSight · 12/06/2021 23:45

This is abusive and he probably finds your lack of consent, or knowledge about it to be really thrilling.

I know his favourite videos to watch are of girls peeing too which weirds me out. Its not even normal porn stuff. How do i find out if im on the internet

He's a sick wanker who likes looking at women who had absolutely no idea they were being filmed at home or in public toilets. First I'd get rid of all the cameras you know of in the house, including the baby cam. Look everywhere for anything - in air vents, in little corners, inside pens. Please reach to friends and family for support because I don't think he's good for you.

BettyFilous · 12/06/2021 23:47

Do you think he’d stoop to covertly record your daughter(s) as they get older? He’s not just a danger to you, he’s potentially one to your daughter(s).

saraclara · 12/06/2021 23:52

Your children are therefore living in the same home as a sex offender

That. If you don't think you deserve better than this, then at least leave for your children's sake.

Please, please contract either women's aid of the police.

tenlittlecygnets · 12/06/2021 23:54

Bloody hell, op, Google voyeur!!

Wake up altogether and get out of this shitty relationship.

Sillawithans · 13/06/2021 00:40

If your parents knew you were married to a peeping Tom, would they still encourage you to stay.

This is creepy as fuck. What a horrid little toad of a man.

BlueButtercups · 13/06/2021 01:27

Womens Aid NOW

copperpotsalot · 13/06/2021 01:36

Women's aid or refuge now.

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