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Well and truly had enough!!

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Mehhhhhhhhh · 10/06/2021 08:11

I've completely had enough of my ex, we brought a puppy a month ago and I had to return it to the breeder for various genuine reasons, anyway I got half the money back and by this time he had already walked out on me, now he's been hounding me for half of the money back (less than £100) and saying he's going to take me to small claims court over it!! Bare in mind the man lived with me for FREE essentially for a number of years and never paid a penny towards rent/bills, he occasionally put £40 on the gas/electric meter and occasionally brought some food but other than that it was completely down to me because his money was his and mine was apparently for everyone. Hmm he's since blocked me on social media (which is fine) and I've had to unfriend all his family members because none of us get on anymore and I can't be dealing with people watching my profile, so il probably get a mouth full later about that Grin
I've woken up with anxiety and I'm just so fed up of this. He slaggs me off all over social media, slaggs me off to anyone who will listen to him. Has regularly called me vile names, both to my face and all over social media and via texts, often walked out and finished the relationship over 20 times in several years, plus more.
We have a child together as well so how the hell am I supposed to co parent with someone who acts like this?

OP posts:
Tiger2018 · 10/06/2021 14:49

this sounds emotionally charged and difficult to deal with.

For now, just leave it. Silence will give him NOTHING and will give you time away from his behaviour. After a few days I would recommend setting up an email address for you to use to arrange co-parenting arrangements. Send him a brief message to let him know this is the way you will be communicating about the kids, ignore anything else!

Hang in there, it does calm down in time, I promise. And you've got the best gift - you're free of the relationship!

Totallyrandomname · 10/06/2021 14:51

I agree with above. Silence and no response.
Keep copies of any abusive or derogatory communication and if it continues consider option with the police or through the courts.

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