A senior male colleague is kind of weird and awkward with me. He can be kind of awkward in general but still friendly and chatty with everyone else, but he acts weird with me. For context I can be kind of quiet too.
Some examples:
- I was training a new colleague and he came up to us both to tell her she needed to do some paperwork. He ignored me during this conversation and then said "one of those lovely people over there can help you with it" when I was standing right there and was already training her.
- If we are ever having a group conversation sometimes I catch him looking at me even though he's not addressing me. Other times we will address me but not look at me.
- My colleague and I both had an issue with something which he helped us with. When he later saw us both he came over and specifically asked my colleague whether everything was all sorted, when I was standing right there.
- Sometimes if he comes over to a few of us or a group of us he will stand right next to me, almost uncomfortably so but he will ignore me and act like I'm not there.
- I changed departments recently and if he ever brought it up he would quickly say "oh is going to miss you!", he did this a few times with random colleagues who happened to be nearby.