A letter to my ghost

[FlorencenotRatchet]

My gut is rarely wrong, I sensed some distance between us so of course I asked you if everything was ok. I was prepared to accept whatever you said because I’m an adult and was sure anything could be worked out. What I never expected was for you to be a ghost, to not even allow me the decency of an explanation. Sure, I could have called you but your silence gives you no right to my tears or anger. You will never know that you’ve broken my heart. You don’t deserve any more of my emotions.
To all that have been there please remember this is not your fault. However hard it is be strong, be dignified, you will come through this.

He is a coward. Well done OP, you will get through this

I thought you meant an actual 👻

So sorry about this, Florence. He abused your trust and hasn’t even behaved as a friend. What a small person he is. You are grieving, but are growing stronger and will be more than fine. I admire your dignity and self-restraint.🌹

I was once ghosted by a man, he came back later and stupidly I let him back in, totally wrong decision on my part. He had no consideration for my feelings whatsoever, used me like a toy and never made any commitments. Ghosting tells you everything you need to know about his morals, character and empathy (he is lacking all of these) so consider yourself lucky that he did this, you dodged a bullet. Don’t ever let him back in if he decides to try to become a zombie, he has shown you his real face.

@ToastedFrog

He is a coward. Well done OP, you will get through this

Thanks ToastedFrog Struggling at the moment but trying to stay strong

@Billlius

I thought you meant an actual 👻

Now that wouls be an interesting story!

@MsDogLady

So sorry about this, Florence. He abused your trust and hasn’t even behaved as a friend. What a small person he is. You are grieving, but are growing stronger and will be more than fine. I admire your dignity and self-restraint.🌹

Self restraint is fading at the moment. Desperately sitting on my hands to avoid to urge to call him

@musthavebeenlove

I was once ghosted by a man, he came back later and stupidly I let him back in, totally wrong decision on my part. He had no consideration for my feelings whatsoever, used me like a toy and never made any commitments. Ghosting tells you everything you need to know about his morals, character and empathy (he is lacking all of these) so consider yourself lucky that he did this, you dodged a bullet. Don’t ever let him back in if he decides to try to become a zombie, he has shown you his real face.

I'm sorry you've been through this. I completely agree that silence tells you everything you need to know about a person. I hope you're in a better place now

@FlorencenotRatchet what a powerful post! I found that quite inspiring and if you have itchy fingers to dial that number please reread your op.
It's spot on and he deserves not once ounce of your head space

I opened thos cos i thought it was about a real ghost

@femfemlicious

I opened thos cos i thought it was about a real ghost

^this 🤣🤣🤣